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Planning a life together is exciting—but it’s also a time of transition, reflection, and growth. Premarital counseling can help couples strengthen their connection, uncover potential challenges, and prepare for a fulfilling future with intention and clarity.
Even the strongest relationships benefit from guided conversations about values, expectations, communication styles, conflict resolution, and more. Premarital counseling isn’t just for couples in crisis—it’s for those who want to proactively invest in their relationship and deepen their bond before marriage.
You can expect a supportive and judgment-free space where both partners feel heard and valued. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s connection, curiosity, and commitment to growth.
Premarital counseling works best in person but can be done via telehealth if both individuals are in the same location.
The Prepare/Enrich Program:
I use the Prepare/Enrich program, a widely used, research-backed assessment and counseling program designed to help couples prepare for marriage and enrich existing relationships.
This program supports couples in identifying their unique strengths and growth areas. This structured process offers personalized insights across key relationship dynamics such as:
Communication and conflict patterns
Financial views and goals
Personality similarities and differences
Family background and beliefs
Intimacy and shared expectations
Roles, parenting, and future planning
Based on your results, we’ll work together to build skills, address potential stressors, and celebrate the aspects of your relationship that already thrive.
An Integrated, Research-Based Approach:
In our premarital counseling work, I pair the comprehensive Prepare/Enrich assessment with tools drawn from the Gottman Method, a leading approach to relationship health grounded in decades of research. While Prepare/Enrich offers a personalized overview of your relationship dynamics, Gottman-informed strategies help us explore and strengthen key areas like:
Conflict management and repair techniques
Emotional connection and friendship
Communication skills and trust-building
Shared meaning, values, and goals
This integrative approach supports couples in building not only insight, but also practical skills for a strong and lasting relationship—well beyond the wedding day.

The free Gottman Card Decks app brings research-based tools from The Gottman Institute right to your phone. Inspired by the popular couples workshop The Art and Science of Love, this app offers fun, thoughtful prompts to spark connection, deepen understanding, and build intimacy.
Explore over 1,000 questions across 22 decks—from getting to know each other better to playful intimacy boosters. Favorite the ones you love, explore at your own pace, and enjoy meaningful moments together—anytime, anywhere.
Subscribe to Gottman Love Notes and get the latest on relationships, therapy, and much more from the experts. Receive a free couples exercise and access to special pricing on Gottman products every month.
The Marriage Minute is a free, twice-weekly email filled with quick, practical relationship insights—perfect for couples or individuals at any stage. Each message takes about a minute to read and offers tips, tools, or exercises to strengthen connection, manage conflict, and build lasting love. Whether you’re partnered, married, or simply curious about relationship health, it’s an easy way to build habits that support emotional closeness and communication.

Premarital counseling is a valuable investment in your relationship—but it’s important to know that it typically isn’t covered by insurance. This is because insurance companies only reimburse for services that are considered “medically necessary,” meaning they require a mental health diagnosis and treatment plan.
Premarital counseling, while incredibly helpful, is focused on growth, communication, and proactive support—not the treatment of a mental health condition. As a result, it is considered a self-pay service.
Think of it as a gift to your relationship: an intentional step toward building a strong foundation for your future together.
