BUILDING FOUNDATION

Premarital Counseling

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THE POWER OF PREPARATION

The conversations you have before marriage create the foundation for the life you’ll build after.

STARTING WITH INTENTION

Premarital Counseling

Planning a life together is exciting—but it’s also a time of transition, reflection, and growth. Premarital counseling can help couples strengthen their connection, uncover potential challenges, and prepare for a fulfilling future with intention and clarity.

Even the strongest relationships benefit from guided conversations about values, expectations, communication styles, conflict resolution, and more. Premarital counseling isn’t just for couples in crisis—it’s for those who want to proactively invest in their relationship and deepen their bond before marriage.

You can expect a supportive and judgment-free space where both partners feel heard and valued. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s connection, curiosity, and commitment to growth.

Premarital counseling works best in person but can be done via telehealth if both individuals are in the same location.

The Prepare/Enrich Program:

I use the Prepare/Enrich program, a widely used, research-backed assessment and counseling program designed to help couples prepare for marriage and enrich existing relationships.

This program supports couples in identifying their unique strengths and growth areas. This structured process offers personalized insights across key relationship dynamics such as:

    • Communication and conflict patterns

    • Financial views and goals

    • Personality similarities and differences

    • Family background and beliefs

    • Intimacy and shared expectations

    • Roles, parenting, and future planning

Based on your results, we’ll work together to build skills, address potential stressors, and celebrate the aspects of your relationship that already thrive.

An Integrated, Research-Based Approach:

In our premarital counseling work, I pair the comprehensive Prepare/Enrich assessment with tools drawn from the Gottman Method, a leading approach to relationship health grounded in decades of research. While Prepare/Enrich offers a personalized overview of your relationship dynamics, Gottman-informed strategies help us explore and strengthen key areas like:

    • Conflict management and repair techniques

    • Emotional connection and friendship

    • Communication skills and trust-building

    • Shared meaning, values, and goals

This integrative approach supports couples in building not only insight, but also practical skills for a strong and lasting relationship—well beyond the wedding day.

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SELF-HELP TOOLS

Resources for Couples

Explore free, easy-to-use apps designed to help couples strengthen communication, deepen connection, and stay aligned in daily life. Whether you're navigating busy schedules, building emotional intimacy, or just looking for fun ways to check in, these tools can support your relationship between sessions.

FREE APP

Gottman Card Decks

The free Gottman Card Decks app brings research-based tools from The Gottman Institute right to your phone. Inspired by the popular couples workshop The Art and Science of Love, this app offers fun, thoughtful prompts to spark connection, deepen understanding, and build intimacy.

Explore over 1,000 questions across 22 decks—from getting to know each other better to playful intimacy boosters. Favorite the ones you love, explore at your own pace, and enjoy meaningful moments together—anytime, anywhere.

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FREE NEWSLETTER

Gottman Love Notes

Subscribe to Gottman Love Notes and get the latest on relationships, therapy, and much more from the experts. Receive a free couples exercise and access to special pricing on Gottman products every month.

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FREE NEWSLETTER

Marriage Minute

The Marriage Minute is a free, twice-weekly email filled with quick, practical relationship insights—perfect for couples or individuals at any stage. Each message takes about a minute to read and offers tips, tools, or exercises to strengthen connection, manage conflict, and build lasting love. Whether you’re partnered, married, or simply curious about relationship health, it’s an easy way to build habits that support emotional closeness and communication.

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WHAT TO KNOW UP FRONT

Insurance and Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling is a valuable investment in your relationship—but it’s important to know that it typically isn’t covered by insurance. This is because insurance companies only reimburse for services that are considered “medically necessary,” meaning they require a mental health diagnosis and treatment plan.

Premarital counseling, while incredibly helpful, is focused on growth, communication, and proactive support—not the treatment of a mental health condition. As a result, it is considered a self-pay service.

Think of it as a gift to your relationship: an intentional step toward building a strong foundation for your future together.

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